Family, there are 5 adults and a grandbaby in my home?

my question is.

i got into some trouble with payday loan, ran my husband off, stupid thing to do, my oldest daughter, said she would come in an help until i got the loans paid off.

she pays the utilities, when she is force her to.

and buys the groceries, i don't eat so that doesn't count for me,

she had free run of my car until i put my foot down.

she got her a cheaper old car.

she pays no rent. she had free will to my car and free babysitting, also she has had to clean no house or do laundry.

I think she owes me some rent, i have a hard time making it on 678.00

she got her income tax and i ask her for a 100.00 to get me by until payday, ha! no go.

Now my granddaughter's boyfriend is moving in, says he will pay rent.

i have told ere over and over to move and she won't .

right now i am just trying to make things hard on her, by not doing anything. ( i am sick at the moment no money for meds, i woul roll over dead before i ask her, need a back bone, please help

Family, there are 5 adults and a grandbaby in my home?

I think you need to assess your situation. Figure out what you can afford and move. Rent a room or something that is feasable for you until you get back on your feet and can afford your own place again. If you stay in the situation you are in you are either going to ruin the relationship with your daughter/family and lose sight of what is right for you as a person. If you own your house then you need to get them out. If your daughter is not paying you the way she promised, do you really think your granddaughter's b/f is going to? You will be stuck with another mouth to feed, yet another person in your house, and more bills that rack up.

Id also find out what legal actions you could do if it came to that.

Family, there are 5 adults and a grandbaby in my home?

its time for tough love there..... you need to enforce the rules and tell everyone,no rent,no groceries... no living here... they are all adults and your house is not a motel... stand up on your feet firmly and if you tell her to get out and she dont,call the police and tell them to take her out and everyone else for that matter... you are sick and need help and your own daughter wont help you? hell no... kick her butt to the curb now! and shame on her... what goes around comes around..

Family, there are 5 adults and a grandbaby in my home?

Put her things out and change the locks.

Family, there are 5 adults and a grandbaby in my home?

You must ask her to buy your meds for you !!! You can't get a-

loan to cover your bottom, but tell her if you are kicked out

she gets kicked out also. With that melt to her, I think she will

cooperate!!! Then maybe you can get on your feet and carry

on. She really sounds like a big time loser. You can't help her

change her ways , the only thing you can do is suggest.

Good Luck !